All posts by Opal Palmer Adisa

Opal Palmer Adisa is an exceptional writer/theatre director/photographer/gender advocate, nurtured on cane-sap and the oceanic breeze of Jamaica. Writer of poetry and professor, educator and cultural activist, Adisa has lectured and read her work throughout the United States, South Africa, Ghana, Nigeria, Germany, England and Prague, and has performed in Italy and Bosnia. An award-winning poet and prose writer Adisa has twenty four titles to her credit. Most recents are: Pretty Like Jamaica; The Storyteller's Return; Portia Dreams and 100 + Voices for Miss Lou. Other titles include the novel, It Begins With Tears (1997), which Rick Ayers proclaimed as one of the most motivational works for young adults. Love's Promise; 4-Headed Woman; Look a Moko Jumbie; Dance Quadrille and Play Quelbe; Painting Away Regrets; Until Judgement Comes;

Our Pot of Gold

IMG_0556.JPGOur lives are precious and invaluable, and there is so much more that we each can do for ourselves as well as for others.

Forget about old hurts and grudges.  Give them to the earth to be transformed into compost.

Banish the naysayers from your head.

There is really nothing you cannot do.  If you think or dream it, it is possible.

Welcome the builders and cheers in your life.  Welcome those who say yes to your projects and those who say I have an idea how you can achieve them, let me help you. Say yes to help and assistance it is a form of strength.

Welcome community because it is really true that it takes a team to make many amazing projects happen.

Call up an old relative or a friend and apologize even though you are sure you were not the one who caused the infraction.

Promise to do something small daily for the world, and that might just be to do you to the best of your ability and smile and applaud yourself.

The world needs our love.  The world feeds on our joy.  The world rejoices about our creativity.  The world really, truly says yes to you just as you are.

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Here!  Let’s share this pot of gold.

 

The Best Is Now

IMG_0494 Today, right now is the perfect time to contemplate where you are, where you want to go, and acknowledge that your life is good and getting better minute by minute because you are paying attention and getting rid of everyone and everything that do not serve you and/or detract you from being and living your highest and best self.

How glorious you are.  How awesome is your life. How blessed is this life, the only one you know…

Natalie Baszile: Blazing with her debut novel, Queen Sugar

An Interview with Opal Palmer Adisa

 Natalie Baszile is the author of the debut novel, Queen Sugar, soon to be adapted into a TV series by writer/director, Ava DuVernay of “Selma” fame, and co-produced by Oprah Winfrey for OWN, Winfrey’s cable network. Queen Sugar was named one of the San Francisco Chronicles’ Best Books of 2014, was long-listed for the Crooks Corner Southern Book Prize, and nominated for an NAACP Image Award.

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OPA: When did you know you had a novel in you?

NB:     I began to suspect I had a novel in me when I realized a short story I’d written was actually just part of a larger story.  This was 1997 and I was at my grandmother’s funeral in Louisiana. During the service, it occurred to me that her town was the place from where one of my characters had come.  It was a startling realization, but also a relief.  When I got home from the funeral, I pulled out the short story and started imagining the characters’ lives. The novel grew from there.

OPA: What education/life experiences prepared you to write this novel? And how long did it take?

NB:     Queen Sugar took 11 years to write, and I have to say that everything I did in advance of selling the manuscript prepared me  to write it.  I was an English major as an undergraduate at Berkeley. That’s where I was first introduced to and fell in love with Afro-American Literature. Afro-American literature was experiencing a renaissance of sorts. Alice Walker, Toni Morrison, Gloria Naylor were just a few of the black authors who were all publishing books and I was completely inspired by their work.  That’s when I started to thinking I might want to be a writer.  I earned a M.A. in Afro-American Studies, and that experience depended my appreciation, not just for Afro-American literature, but for the history the diaspora.  Those two experiences helped me lay the foundation.  Years later, after I’d started working on Queen Sugar, I went back to school again and earned an M.F.A. in Creative Writing because I realized I needed to learn more about the craft of writing.  I also worked for my family’s business for eleven years after college. While that experience didn’t teach me anything about writing, I learned some valuable lessons about how quickly time could pass and how important it was for me to pursue my passion while I had the chance.

OPA: Did you always know you wanted to write?

NB:     I always knew I wanted to write.  I loved books as a kid, and initially thought I wanted to be a journalist. During college I secretly dreamed of moving to New York and writing for a magazine, but I was afraid to take the leap, which, looking back seems so ridiculous. But I’d also promised my dad that after graduation I’d work in his business.  I’m the oldest of two girls, and my younger sister announced early on that she wanted to be an academic, so I suppose I felt a sense of duty–so that’s what I did for 11 years until I couldn’t stand it any more and quit.  Writing is something I have to do. It’s an absolute necessity–physically, emotionally, and psychologically, spiritually. When I don’t write, I don’t really feel like myself.

OPA: Your novel, Queen Sugar, is set in Louisiana.  Did you grow up there or do you have family there?

NB:     I’m a native Californian, but my dad was born in Louisiana, which, I think, gave me permission to claim it as part of my identity. My extended family still lives there, and I love having southern roots, but I’m also grateful to have a western sensibility.  I don’t think I could have written Queen Sugar if I’d been born in Louisiana.  That book is all about discovery and being in a state of wonder.  In so many ways, I needed to occupy a space outside of the culture in order to write about it.

OPA: Why is this story important to the Black literary tradition?

NB:     When I first dreamed of becoming a writer, African-American literature explored a range of topics, but then it seemed to narrow for a time, which I think had more to do with publishing and less to do with reality. But there was definitely a period when it seemed that the only stories told (or published) about black peoples’ lives were either entirely urban or entirely rural, and I wasn’t seeing anything that reflected my experience on the book shelves.  That lack of range was huge reason why I wanted to write Queen Sugar. Because it’s like Toni Morrison says:  “If you don’t see a book you want to read, then you must write it.”  I always hoped that Queen Sugar would tell a story readers hadn’t seen:  the story of a middle class, suburban black woman from the west.  The Black literary tradition is so rich.  I’m very grateful to be a part of it.

OPA: Which black writers and other writers’ works have influenced you?

NB:     Where do I begin?  James Baldwin, Toni Morrison, Alice Walker, Zora Neal Hurston and Jean Toomer were some of my early influences. I love Andrea Lee’s story collection, Interesting Women, then there’s Zadie Smith and Chiminanda Adiche.  I don’t write poetry, but I read it and have tremendous admiration for poets: Elizabeth Alexander, A. Van Jordan, Natasha Tretheway, Cornelius Eady, Yusef Komenyakaa, Lucille Clifton . . . .  I just read Claudia Rankine’s Citizen, which blew me away, and am reading Robin Coste Lewis’s Voyage of the Sable Venus, which I love, love love.  I love Amy Bloom and Elizabeth Strout, Michael Cunningham, Elena Ferrante’s,  Anthony Doerr. So many writers . . .I also draw inspiration from other art forms.  Kara Walker’s work is provocative and interesting. Then there’s Glen Ligon, Carrie Mae Weems, Elizabeth Catlett, and Richard Mayhew . . . I could go on.

OPA: Are you willing to say what you’re working on next?

NB:     I have an idea for my next novel, but I’m at the very beginning of the process, which feels so strange after working on Queen Sugar for so long. I have the tiniest seed of an idea, just a kernel, which I have to nurture and protect, so I can’t say much about it.

OPA: What does Natalie do for fun, when she is not writing, let us, just a little, into a glimpse of you – Natalie?

NB:     When I’m not writing, I love to ride my bike and garden, although I have to confess I haven’t done much of either lately. I had a big garden when I lived in Los Angeles, but I still haven’t figured out how to grow anything but salad greens and lemons in San Francisco where it’s so much cooler. I like to entertain and enjoy entertaining friends over for dinner. I love to travel and have a long list of places I’d love to experience. I have a lot of things on my bucket list.

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Natalie Baszile, a member of the San Francisco Writers’ Grotto, has a M.A. in Afro-American Studies from UCLA, and an MFA from Warren Wilson College’s MFA Program for Writers. Her non-fiction work has appeared in The Rumpus.netMission at TenthThe Best Women’s Travel Writing Volume 9, and O, The Oprah Magazine. For more information visit her website: http://nataliebaszile.com or connect with her on FaceBook

 

Mona Lisa Saloy’s New Orleans: Returning to Family & Culture

An Interview with Opal Palmer Adisa

 OPA: You attended Graduate school in the San Francisco Bay are, and then you returned to New Orleans, why?

MonalisasaloyMLS: The San Francisco Bay Area was great for my growth, grad school at S.F. State, where I met YOU! Then attending workshops & readings at later working at the S.F. African American Historical & Cultural Society originally in the Filmore, was a writer’s dream; it was there I met Bob Kaufman, who heard us young poets read; it was great time. Top that with the events listed in The Poetry Flash, many of which I attended. I was a performing poet. A reading was a literary and social event. I sold Broadsides of my work, so I was encouraged to keep doing that, but my work was not deepening. Typical of performers, I was beginning to cater to audience preferences for “popular” pieces instead of digging deeper. Then, the Afro-American Museums’ Association sent us to the World’s Fair in New Orleans. There, the great Danny Barker, musician, and Mrs. Sybil Morial (wife of a Black NOLA Mayor and mother to another) reported their disappointment that too many New Orleans youth left for higher education and did not return. Their pleas hit me in the gut. Couple that with missing my family with our wonderful culture, cuisine, and music. Within a year, I returned home to New Orleans. Not only did I deepen my work, but reconnected with my family roots, grew emotionally, and have two books to show, two additional degrees, and a career as a Folklorist in addition.

OPA: How and when did you come to poetry?  Does poetry matter in today’s society/world?

MLS: After marrying too young, and suffering through a terrible car accident six months into the marriage, I was left with a broken pelvis, a hole in my lung and no memory. I wrote to remember and met poets who told me I sounded like a writer (had no clue what they meant); they introduced me to their teach, Colleen McElroy, who became my mentor and nurtured my new-found love of literature, especially literature by people of color. It was on from there, and I never looked elsewhere.

Yes, poetry is the world’s lyric, the tale of today, the comment on our times, the quandaries considered, blasted, blessed, praised, and condemned. Poetry will always be essential.

OPA: What keeps you writing?

MLS: Something inside that makes me speak for those to can’t or won’t, to tell our tales, hail our uniqueness, so much of which is the sweetness of life. Then, someone has to speak up for injustice; otherwise, it will continue to exist.

OPA: Who have been some of the important voices that have shaped your poetics?

MLS:   Black Writers, Asian, Latino, Native Americans and Whites. This is just a partial list.

Carolyn M. Rodgers, Frank Chinn, Federico Garcia Lorca, Joy Hargo, Emily Dickerson, Jessica Hagedorn, Nicolas Guillen, Roberta Hill, e.e. Cummings, Sonia Sanchez,           Li-Young Lee, Pablo Neruda, Simon Ortiz, Leslie Marmon Silko, Rilke, Ishmael Reed, African writers such as Okot B’Tek, Wole Soyinka and Derek Walcott from the Caribbean. There are many more, but these came up first!

OPA: As a writer/folklorist committed to documenting your family and cultural history, how do you decide what story to tell?

MLS: As a writer, I’m compelled to tell the story that erupts strongest from my sensibility, of which sometimes, I have no control; it comes up and must get out. Other times, I aim to tell something that needs telling about my people as a whole, or connections. In the world, Black people are united by culture and separated by sea, but we are so much more alike than different. I’m often moved by the similarities and enjoy the differences, the many delights of this life.

OPA: You were living and teaching in New Orleans when Katrina happened and the poems in Second Line Home documents your journey, and the personal cost since that event.  What has been the worst aspect of that atrocity in America’s history?

MLS: The worst is that this was not a natural disaster but a Federal Flood as we now call it. We, our parents-grandparents-and us, paid for substantial levees sturdy enough to hold back the sea, as the Dutch hold back the North Sea with our design; at some point, politicians and the Army Core of Engineers scaled back to a cheaper model that did not work. To add insult to injury, we cannot sue the Federal Government. 80% of the city of New Orleans flooded due to levee failure after hurricane Katrina was gone. There was no place to live, no grocery stores—food deserts. We were exiled to all points across the country. Returning to tend our land was expensive. Before the Federal Flood, the lower 9th Ward (Arondissment in Paris) can boast as the largest Black neighborhood of homeowners in the nation, a statistic one never heard over the sensationalism of the “Black Poor” there. Over ten years since the Federal Flood, and I and others are still not in our homes. Many cannot afford to return. Too many of us lost everything.

Worse than that is the tremendous interruption of our culture. In New Orleans, even with very little, Black people have a tradition of living gloriously, of giving thanks for each day with style and swag. Our cuisine is beloved as is our music and style. We made a way out of no way when we had to during Jim Crow and lived gloriously making cultural all along the way. Now, our neighborhoods are toothless; our families interrupted. Some of our names return 300 years; there’s a different sense of place in that respect, and some may never return.

OPA: Has New Orleans healed from katrina? Is there still support that is need? How and where can folks help?

MLS: Certainly, New Orleans is in healing mode still; there is so much more that needs to be done. To begin, help those who need it instead of sitting on it. We’re the only place post-Katrina, who did not get replacement value, and the insurance companies were allowed to stiff us after paying premiums for decades. Now, many cannot afford coverage. This is a travesty of what America purports to be. New Jersey shore is rebuilt. No one is NYC is crying. New Orleans is one of the jewels of this nation, but we need help.

Help out: write your Representatives & Congressmen. There should be a national outcry that too many cannot rebuild or do not have funds to complete rebuilding. President Obama,
http://www.pen.org/blog/federal-flood
http://www.theneworleansadvocate.com/features/12982208-171/new-orleanians-fighting-their-way

OPA: What are you working on now, and what support do you need as a poet?

MLS: Currently, stealing time to complete 1. My manuscript on contemporary Black Creole culture; 2. My manuscript on Kids Games: Sidewalk Songs, Jump-Rope Rhymes, and Clap-Hand Games; and 3. Re-writing my manuscript on Bob Kaufman. In the interim, I’m designing future works focused on my communities, which will be group efforts.

Dr. Mona Lisa Saloy is the Conrad N. Hilton Endowed Professor, Coordinator of English in the School of Humanities at Dillard University

For more information about Mona Lisa Saloy and her work, visit the websites listed below. Here is one of her poems:

On not being able to write a post-Katrina poem about New Orleans

It wasn’t Katrina you see
It was the levees
One levee crumbled under Pontchartrain water surges
One levee broke by barge, the one not supposed to park near ninth-ward streets
One levee overflowed under Pontchartrain water pressure
We paid for a 17-foot levee but
We got 10-foot levees, so
Who got all that money—the hundreds of thousands
Earmarked for the people’s protection?

No metaphors capture this battle for New Orleans
Now defeated and scorned by the bitter mistress of Bush-era non-government
New Orleans is broken by the bullet of ignorance
Our streets are baptized by brutal neglect
Our homes, now empty of brown and white faces, segregated by
Our broken promises of help where only hurt remains
Our hearts like our voices hollow now in the aftermath

Our eyes are scattered among T.V. images of
Our poor who without cars cling to interstate ramps like buoys
Our young mothers starving stealing diapers and bottles of baby food
Our families spread as ashes to the wind after cremation
Our brothers our sisters our aunts our uncles our mothers our fathers lost
Stranded like slaves in the Middle Passages
Pressed like sardines, in the Super Dome, like in slave ships
Where there was no escape from feces or
Some died on sidewalks waiting for help
Some raped in the Dome waiting for water and food
Some kids kidnapped like candy bars on unwatched shelves
Some beaten by shock and anger
Some homeless made helpless and hopeless by it all

Where is Benjamin Franklin when we need him?
Did we not work hard, pay our taxes, vote our leaders into office?
What happened to life, liberty, and the pursuit of the good?
Oh say, can you see us America?
Is our bright burning disappointment visible years later?
Is all we get the baked-on sludge of putrid water, your empty promises?
Where are you America?

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Presenting It Begins With Tears to Young Readers: Berkeley High School

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Yesterday  I had the pleasure of reading from my first novel to students, juniors, at Berkeley High where It Begins With Tears is being taught.

Although this novel has been taught in more than 30 colleges nation-wide, and internationally, and at three High schools, including Berkeley high, in the past, I had not written it with young people in mind so I am always surprised and humbled when students come up to me and say, as two students did yesterday, that it is the best book that they have read, and countless others, approached me after my presentation to say how much they enjoyed and liked the novel.

A parent was in the audience and asked what has been my most favorite thing about writing this and other books, and I have to say, hands down, it is the opportunity to share my work and hear what readers take away. I love that it continues to find its way to young people, and as far removed as they are from the rural Jamaica setting, and the issues of community and relationships that it explore, that it still resonates with students.

IMG_4900I want to thank Alan Miller, the teacher who has introduced these young people to my text and who invited me to present to both his classes yesterday, and for inviting other teachers and students, who were not in the class, but who came to listen and ask questions.

The greatest reward for me as a writer is sharing my work, and knowing that there are people out there who are reading me and being exposed to the people and their stories that I present in my works.

I truly enjoyed revisiting this text through the eyes of these young adults, and want to thank each of them for being present and all the questions they asked.

Thanks too to the two students who introduced me, Nia and the young man whose name escapes me now, and Zeeshawn, who made me promise to write a story with a character with his name.

Nuff Respect to Berkeley High School for my visit.

Walk Good,

WORDS HAD THE POWER OF MAGIC SPELLS: GENNY LIM

gennylim2  A San Francisco native, Genny Lim is an American poet, playwright, and performer. A graduate of San Francisco State University, and Columbia University, Lim has taught at several universities including New College and the California Institute of Integral Studies.

 

Lim began writing poetry in middles school, and remembers her first step towards poetry: “I have a vague and amusing memory of writing poems that were very intellectual and high falutin sounding. I must’ve thought them to be very deep at the time. I was pretending to be a poet. I liked the sound of language and the play of words as they rolled off my tongue like music. I had no mentors, only books, poetry books my older sister read and kept around the house. She had e.e. cummings, Pound, Wallace Stevens, Ginsburg, Creeley, Philip Whalen, Di Prima, lots of the Beats. I read them out loud, purely enjoying the vocabularies, the sound of the words, as if words had the power of magic spells. I had discovered something that I have never lost.”

And in deed Genny Lim has been reproducing the magic. The author of two plays, Paper Angels & Bitter Cane, and two poetry collections, Winter Place & Child of War, and co-editor of the seminal anthology, Island: Poetry and History of Chinese Immigrants on Angel Island, Lim states that the biggest influence have been her older sisters. They were the ones who exposed me to Jazz, flamenco, blues, yoga, zen, guitar, poetry and dance. Our house was always filled with music. Chinese opera, country music, top forty pop, big band music, Latin music a hodgepodge of everything. That happens when you’re from a big family. You get exposed to everybody’s tastes.”

 

The youngest of seven children, Lim likens her childhood experience to being like a human sponge, and all that she stored as a child, eventually found its way into her poetry. Of course, books is one of the common denominator that connects this Bay area writer with others. Lim enthuse, “I loved books. I read every Lois Lenski and Oz book I could get my hands on at the library. I was a closet country girl trapped in the city. I imagined strawberry bogs and running barefoot with goats and chickens. My older sister asked my why I liked the Oz books so much. I said because everyone is equal in Oz and everyone shares what they have and are happy. She told me I was a socialist. I thought she was calling me a name because I had no idea what a socialist was. I just wanted utopia.”

 

The recipient of many awards ,including the American Book Award, 1981, and several others including Bay Guardian Goldie, Creative Work Fund and Rockefeller for “Songline: The Spiritual Tributary of Paul Robeson Jr. and Mei Lanfang,” This was a collaborative project that Genny Lim did with Jon Jang and James Newton. Lim has been a stable in the Bay Area poetry and performance scene for more than three decades, yet her work remains fresh and vibrant. Reflecting on her steadfastness, Genny Lim remarks,

“Staying power is about keeping on. Writing is a practice. It’s my ritual. My form of meditation. Regardless of the ups and downs, regardless of who’s listening or not, it’s the way I make sense of an incomprehensible world. All my anxieties, fears, sorrows and questions are examined when I dive deep into my consciousness. I derive a sense of inner peace after having completed a poem.”

 

And in truth many of Lim’s poems read as meditation, like this one entitled, “Chukchi Woman

for Lin Sun Lim, Oct. 6, 1907-July 26, 2007

 

Lost in drifts of dawn

you walk and walk

With eyes of raven

and slits of obsidian

Don’t slip or blink or

you’ll fall into the

mouth of the man-eater

Don’t sleep or you’ll awake

inside the skin of the seal or

mouth of the tiger

Let your soul slip into oblivion

with migrating geese and

you will see with a thousand eyes

into the past and future

Let your voice echo the song of

whales calling to their ancestors

across the screech of owls

Scoop the darkness up with

both hands and tie your soul

to the antlers of reindeer to

watch the thunder roll

Shake the leaves of the forest

with the beat of your rattle

to elude the darkness and

men with sunken eyes

who trap souls in nets and

impersonate dreams

You drift through fire and water

mix cloud water with placenta

and earth to coax the first breath

in a world without memories

lost in yesterday’s dreams

you shed your skin

on raven’s wings

 

 

Speaking about audience and her concerns about her writing life, Genny Lim has this to say:

 

“Depending on the poem I write, my general audience can be other women, other people of color, other Asians or Whites. I don’t worry too much about who can relate or appreciate my poems, because I don’t write with a commercial intent. I’m not aiming for the mass market and never have. If I did, I would have to shift my values, attitudes, and beliefs so much that I wouldn’t be me. I don’t even send my poems out or attend writing retreats and professional conferences, like AWP, where you network with other writers, agents, etc. I’ve been a single working mom and now I’m a busy grandmother of two small and very active boys so I don’t’ have time for all that. It’s not my priority at this point in my career. Many of these opportunities were not even available when I was cutting my teeth as a young poet-playwright.

“Everything I write is seen and interpreted through my lens as an Asian American woman. My gender, race and ethnicity shapes the way I perceive the world and the social reality I experience is my truth. Readers may not agree with my political stance nor appreciate my point of view, but if I couldn’t exercise my freedom of expression, I wouldn’t care to write one word, not one word. I don’t have the burden of trying to sugarcoat or tone down my beliefs that a commercial author published by a big house might have. There’s way too much conformity around as it is and the lack of diversity in representation, due to corporate media, the entertainment industry and publishing houses, produces a dangerously docile public.

And like many artists who are also mothers, Genny Lim talks about how this aspect of her life interfaced with her creativity.

“Motherhood informs everything I do. The struggles I’ve had raising two girls as a single mother and the loss of one of them due to a tragic accident, is one of those things you never get over. You learn to access those areas of your psyche where the memories are still fresh, when you try to comprehend acts of gross human cruelty, such as war, torture or genocide, and what the loss of a child means to a mother. I don’t believe I could make that leap from my human condition to that of a Palestinian mother who has lost her children to the occupation, had it not been for my own loss.

“I am having a great time collaborating with longtime musician friends, like Anthony Brown and the Asian American Orchestra in our piece, 1945: A Day of Infamy which we’ve performed in Japan town, the Asian Art Museum and Herbst Theater for San Francisco Music Day. We hope to bring the piece to Japan. In the works is a collaboration with up and coming drummer and music strategist, Marshall Trammell at San Francisco Performing Arts Festival in Fort Mason in May 2016. At this stage, I’m just taking it day by day. I think I still have one more play left in me. I’ll have to wait and see.”

If you have not read Genny Lim’s work then make sure to purchase her books, and if you have not seen her engaging performances then be sure to check the listings and catch her next time.

Wall of Safety/A World of Peace

I am a woman who is a mother

this mother who is a woman

this woman who has two daughters

two daughters who are from this woman’s womb

daughters who like this woman are wayward and independent

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independent enough to live   to live  to live

far from home  far from a mother’s love

a love that is never far  never too far

never far at all

and this woman

who is mother

of two daughters

who live in Paris & Brussels

Brussels and Paris where the history

of Ayiti and the Congo

Ruanda-Urundi, Mauritania, Senegal, Guinea, Mali, Ivory Coast, Benin, Niger, Chad, Republic of the Congo), the east African coastal enclave of Djibouti have felt the lash  have been forced to lick their own blood

and terror    terror  terror

is a new word only reserved for some

often not those who have been terrorized

land and people and resources exploited

but this is not a quarrel with history

history that is often written by the victorious

history filtered through  lens of guns and bible

this is not a quarrel with this history

this is about a mother with two daughters

daughters living in the mouth of terror

who must be safe

two daughters safe

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Silence Needs to be Present

The older I get, the more  I crave silence, and the more impatient I get with mindless talking, and people rehashing the same story ad nauseam.

DSC03994There is hardly any public spaces where I can go and am not bombarded with chatter and noise, people talking loudly, sharing their personal business on cell phones,  TV blasting the latest disaster, ceaseless and continuous babble.

I go to the spa and am soaking in the hot tub and people are there chatting away, nothing of importance, but filling the space because they are afraid to be quiet and listen to their inner minds. I am not interested in having a conversation while I am being massaged, and if there must be music ask my preference.

I am demanding that in all public spaces their are quiet zones, where talking in not allowed just like how smoking is not allowed –at airports, at spas, on various walking paths.

Maybe it’s because I am a writer and there are all these characters inside my head forever vying  for my attention, and I can’t hear then unless I am quiet.

Maybe it’s because I think people should only speak when they have something important to say.

Maybe there is too much babble garbage in the world and I want to be spared such exposure.

Maybe because I do believe silence is golden and should be practiced regularly.

Maybe because I deserve down time to think and commune with  my divide self.DSC03999

Turn off your chatter.

Get to know yourself.

Enjoy the silence.

 

 

Healing the Human Heart – For the People of France

This flower is for the people of France, and especially to the city of Paris that has welcomed my daughter for five years, and a city I first visited 32 years ago and fell in love with.   image

We must meet and celebrate everyone at the level of our common humanity.

Senseless violence seldom resolves anything.

We must open wide our hearts and work towards peace so no one, anywhere in the world

 feels unsafe or is the target of attack.  This should be our single greatest task as a people and as the world right now.

We have landed people on the moon, we have created devices to talk with each other anywhere in the world so let’s make peace happen. Let’s feed and clothe the world. Let’s create Harmony. image