Category Archives: Daily Musings

You Are Competent/You Have All the Know-How

Often, when we are faced with a new project or idea, one of our first concerns is whether or not we are competent, or have the skills necessary to accomplish the task.

DSC03709I use my own life as an example.  I never say no, which is how I got my first teaching job, designing a course I had never taught before, about people, many of whom I had not heard about before, and on a topic/subject about which I was only cursory familiar.

I was always just one step ahead of the students. It was the hardest I ever worked, researching and learning what I did not in a short period of time. But at the end of the semester, I had one of the highest evaluations for the semester.  Saying yes secured me a full time contract the following semester. And just this week, a former student of that class 30 years ago, told me it was one of the best in her college career.  Having said yes, I was not about to fail.

Since then I have said yes to  things that have come  my way and learned as I went along,  happy for the opportunity and knowledge I gleaned along the way.  I wrote about things that were not on my mind, but honored the request and in the process was rewarded.

This is how I raised my children to say yes to whatever opportunities that come their way and learn as they go along.

The truth is, everything that comes our way is an opportunity for growth and expansion so why turn away out of fear.  You don’t have to know until you need to know, and as long as you are willing to try and learn there will be a teacher and/or guide present to help you along the way. And if there isn’t anyone, it is because you are capable of figuring it out on your own.

Remember, You are Competent and Have all that you need to do whatever comes your way, so before you say No or make excuses why not, just step into the Possibility and expand your horizon.

Thank You LaRhonda.

Sharing Your Gift

Although it is a cliche, it is also a fundamental true:

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What do you enjoy?

What makes your heart soar?

What puts a smile on your face?
When do you feel your best, your strongest, most at ease.

For me that remains the classroom — it has always been my stage — and sharing my work with others.

Yesterday one of my students gave me the greatest gift: She said I was such an inspiration and that I should go around and motivate young people, college students, about life and the world.

I love my life.  Each day gets better and better.

While there are many things that I still want to accomplish and seek the resources that would support this, I continue optimistically, daily.

Each day, I love the life I live.

I love where ever I am.

I love the people I encounter.

I am thankful that I am in such a great place in life.

I love the trees and flowers and birds and the natural environment that surrounds me.

I see all the minute beauty.

Yes, I am a motivator and I will continue to inspire!

Live as if Your Life Matters

DSC03091We are all connected to each other, and we never know when we will be called to be of service,

or when someone,

even a stranger,

will step forward for us.

Live each moment as it matters.

Life really demands so little of us.

What is kindness but a blessing  to your heart.

What is generosity but the pattern of your breath.

What does it mean going the mile, other than flowing with the blood pumping through your veins.

Turn off the TV, and stop your exclamation about the tribulations of the various so-called celebrities.

DSC03033Be your own celebrity.  Be you own star and famous person.

Touch the plants your past,  hug the trees and wave to the birds

You  Matter.

Your life Matters.

Between the World and Me – Ta-Nehisi Coates: What We Give Our Children

Reading Between the World and Me, a compassionate and moving letter that Coates has written to his son, I fall in love again with the power and magic of words to make sense of our lives.  This is how and why I came to poetry. I recognized the transformative energy behind poetry, what is makes possible, and I fully endorses Coates sensibilities when he says, “Poetry was not simply the transcription of notions —beautiful writing rarely is…” It is though, if you do it well and with reverence, a glaring light which I have gifted my children since their births, a poem each birthday, and other poems written to remind them of the truth.

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For Shola, my oldest, being awed by her natural beauty that was way deeper than skin, I penned, “you are everything primordial, sweet, the first and the last…” so she would know who she is at all times despite what others, who had long forgotten the truth, might try to tell her she was not.

I was, like Coates, being mindful and careful knowing that “Poetry aims for an economy of truth –loose and useless words must be discarded…”

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When my son Jawara was born, the times were not very different for Black men than they are now…There was Walter Rodney and countless others before and after, and I knew that his life mattered.  In fact, I knew he was essential, and I was and still am prepared to do whatever it takes to keep him safe so I gifted him the poem, “I will not let them take you/you will not be one of their victims…” and this today still has to be our stance.  We will not let any of us fall prey anymore.  No more.  It is not only that we Matter.  We are Essential.  We are the truths of the poem, distillated.

“Poetry was the processing of my thoughts until the slag of justification fell away and I was left with the cold steel truths of life…” says Ta-Nehisi Coates, as he analyzes his process, his development as a writer and all those people and ideas who influenced him.

As a mother, my cold steel truths has always been to care for, protect, educate and raise three exceptional human beings to gift the world, to contribute, to spread love and wisdom and truth. So when my third and last child, affectionately known as my wash-belly child was born, I wrote and named her the crowning glory,Teju.

DSC03003 - Version 2We must be kind and loving and generous with our children, but we can and must not accept laziness, disregard, excuses, foul language, sloven behavior and mindless living from them.

Do not allow them to wallow in blame and pointing the finger. Help and guide them to create a plan, a goal, give them community, invest them with self-knowledge, with the importance of contributing to improve not only their individual life, but life all around them.

Give and show them the world, so they can stretch and expand.

Let’s Love Our Children and Insist on their Safety and Well Being.

We are powerful.

We are the survivors of the Middle Passage.

We did not come so far to fold in Now.

We are the truth of Poetry than cannot be suppressed nor denied.

We are Everlasting Poetic Truth.

Wedding: Alicia & Keith

DSC03626The Best marriage is when two families come together to support the love between two people, to laugh and dance and break bread, and say yes to love, yes to commitment, yes to you two, yes to fun and family.

Alicia and Keith by making this declaration to join your lives and live and support each other, you have accepted a big responsibility, not just to yourselves, but to the future of what is known as family and community.

DSC03546I am proud and confident of your abilities to weather all storms, but most importantly to listen to one another, to love, support,respect and to help each other to grow and continue always to be your best selves.

One Love Always

Another Big Win For Jamaica: Marlon James Wins the Man Booker Prize

DSC03193Tuesday night, at London’s Guildhall, Marlon James became the first Jamaican to win the £50,000 Man Booker Prize for his novel, The Brief History of Seven Killings, inspired by the attempted assassination of Bob Marley in the 1970s.

This semester in my seminar, The Scent of Memory, that is examining texts about slavery, I am teaching James’  The Books of Night Women (2009), that is set on a Jamaican plantation at the turn of the 19th century.

Three weeks ago, when James was a visiting writer at California College of the Arts where I teach, we spoke about the Man Booker Nomination and how awesome it would be if he won.  And he has.

What an accomplishment.  Nuff Respect to my fellow Jamaican, and may this island that has produced so many greats find its way to peace, and as the late Bob Marley, who inspired James’ books sang, “One Love, One, heart, One Destiny.”

searchBig Up Marlon James

and Big Up Jamaica

that produced him.

The Right Soil.

In order to grow organic vegetables and sweet fruits you must begin with fertile soil that is manured with forgiveness and watered with love.

Your body and mind are nourished with the same substance.

The ease and success of your life is guided by the same principles.

A solid base — love and forgiveness, which encompass all other emotions– will withstand all natural disasters.

Poetry Saved Her Life: Patricia Jabbeh Wesley

Patricia Jabbeh WesleyWriting poetry and fiction since she was fourteen years old, Patricia Jabbeh Wesley, realized that she “was more gifted in poetry than fiction” when she was in college.” Currently, she is editing “a collection of short stories, while seeking an agent for my memoir, so maybe one day soon, I can say I am a writer of three genres.”

Born and raised in Liberia, in 1989 when the Liberian civil war began Jabbeh Wesley was “experimenting with fiction.” However, her shift to poetry was prompted by the civil war, and at its beginning had nearly completed a collection of poetry. Jabbeh Wesley speaks to how the shift in emphasis occurred.

“It was during our flight as a family, the urgency of the war, bombs falling, people dying around me, and always being on the run with my small children, my husband, my mother, and her family that I realized that war had no time for the long windedness of prose. I needed to capture my life during those days in the refugee, displaced camp, and I did with the urgency of war. That was when I began writing only poetry. And then I knew I was more a poet than a fiction writer.”

Confident and outspoken, Patricia Jabbeh Wesley teaches creative writing at Penn State University where she is an Associate Professor;  she has lived in the USA since 1991, where she earned a doctorate degree. She has so far published four poetry collections, and is very popular reader both nationally and internationally at festival as well as universities. Jabbeh Wesley shares some of the top venues where she has performed.

“I was invited to the 2007 famous International Poetry Festival of Medellin in Colombia, South America, and then again to the 20th anniversary celebration, 2010, something which rarely happens with that festival. I have also been a guest of the 2008 Pan African Literary Forum in Accra, Ghana, that brought together writers and students of writing from around Africa and the world, including the USA. Also, I was a guest at the Fall for the Book Festival 2009, held throughout Virginia; and to the very renowned City of Asylum Festival, the Calvin College Festival of Faith and Writing.”

Patricia Jabbeh Wesley was one of the featured poets at the Kistrech Poetry Festival. Of her participation she says, “I was very privileged to be a part of the Kistrech International Poetry Festival for the opportunity to present my poetry to my East African brethren, to read at the three universities along with other poets, and to meet all of the wonderful writers from around the world, the younger generation of African poets as well as others in the Diaspora who are my contemporaries. The festival taught me a lot. I also got the opportunity to see a region of Africa that I had long longed to see.”

“I am an African with the heart for my continent. despite being away in the Diaspora for two decades. When I write, it is to bring my culture and my people to the world, to bring to life the stories of our war, those who died, and to give voice to my people, the Liberian and the African people. I want my audience to hear the voice of one African woman poet, and to understand that our poetry speaks a far different language than the poetic language of the African man.”

Her poem below reveals her social consciousness.

Sometimes, I Close My Eyes

Sometimes I see the world, scattered

in small brick shacks along the hillsides

far away in Colombia,

where it is only the poor, at the peak

of the mountains. Medellin, holding on

so the city can find rest.

Sometimes, I see the poor in my Bai,

shoeless and old, his teeth threatening

to leave him if he continued on,

and walking on barefoot, he looks ahead,

his eyes, not betraying the future, where

the children he’s populated

the globe with, will cradle him beneath

the soil, where we all go, poor or rich,

where we all go, if we believe in the grave.

Sometimes, it is just these children who

have emerged from a long war they never

saw; children, left along

the sewage drains, the same people who

brought on the war, now recapturing

the land as if the land could be captured.

Sometimes, the world is hazy, as if fog

were a thing for the artist’s rough canvas;

sometimes, the world is a shattered piece

of your Iyeeh’s dish, the one from ages ago,

the one that was not meant to crack,

but sometimes, this is the world, the simple,

ordinary world, where people are too

ordinary to matter. Sometimes, I close my

eyes so I don’t have to see the world.

1979894_10203427294191848_1421844885_nTo learn more about Patricia Jabbeh Wesley visit her website: http://www.pjabbeh.com

;and her blog: poetryforpeace.wordpress.com

Head Down Bottom UP

DSC03251folks might see you

with your bottom up

and be confused

think you have flipped

but you know that

in order to secure food

sometimes it is necessary

to keep your head down

and your bottom up

every goal you plan

to achieve will require

that you change course

so don’t mind others

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bottom up

and go to the bank