Category Archives: Daily Musings

Toes=Forgiveness

DSC03108If you had feet, but no toes, would you be able to walk?

Sure you could; your balance would be thrown off, but you could be fitted

with prothesis, and with practice, regain balance and mobility.

Toes are essential to your balance, and are in no way superfluous.

You wiggle them, and you can also use them to grasp and pick up things;

some women paint their toenails, and they are essential to ballerinas.

Would you be willing to have your toes amputated?
I think not.

Yet many people are willing to deny themselves emotional freedom

as they refuse to release old wrongs.

Well you might want to rethink your position.

Forgiveness is to emotional freedom what toes are to feet.

So how sturdy is your emotional balance?

If you feel wobbly and you’re unable to gain stride

then check in with yourself and see who is on your

list to forgive, and always, always begin with yourself.

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Feminizing Myth: Maria Dahvana Headley

MariaDHEadley3Maria Dahvana Headley, USA fantasy writer for young adults as well as adults, also writes non-fantasy, and is at Arte Studio Ginestrelle on a serious mission.

“I am here to finish the sequel to a young adult novel, Magonia, which I did and to write an adaption of a classic saga which mainly, in its original, focuses on male heroics.” A full time writer, with five novels to her credit, Maria is disciplined and driven. Knowing the task ahead of her, she searched for a place where she would be productive, and an environment, that in some way, is similar to the setting of her new title.

Maria elaborates, “I was looking for a place where I could be on a mountain because the two heroes of my story live on a mountain with ghosts and wolves.  This setting is amazing, and everything I write lately is set on a mountain. I have 3 things I’m writing about set on mountain so this is perfect.”

MariaDHeadleyAt Arte Studio Ginestrelle, located in Assisi, Italy, a country that Maria loves, there are only women artists in residence, but Maria is enjoying the time and sharing with the other artists, especially at leisurely breakfasts, during breaks from their respective goals and cooking for dinner. Comfortable in the kitchen, Maria enjoys whipping up a dish to share with her cohorts as she takes a break from fantasy to explore another genre.

“I write fantasy that I make up completely.  I though it would be nice to work on something based on historical literature, and also I think it is inspiring to be in this colony, which is located in a beautiful place in the world, but also isolated – and the novel takes place in isolation.”

Maria began this novel in Paris, last year, when she went to visit her sister who had a new baby. She reminisces, “I wrote in the middle of the night, the baby was crying, lots was going on, but I wrote amidst all the travails of domestic life.” However, at the residency she is exploring the wilderness section of the book, and therefore requires a different headspace.

Perhaps some readers do not fully understand the process of writing a book, and the prerequisite research necessary to the plot development. In this case, set in contemporary America, Maria “researched women in the military, in the last fourteen years of conflict, years of furious war, and women coming out of it with a lot of injuries. I also looked at fossil records of New York. I promise, it all makes sense.” While the novel is about ghosts, Maria also wanted to find out what was there first, and this is what she discovered.

“An old forest in upstate New York – a  fossilized forest, discovered in the 1920’s when they were building a dam there; they found full fossil trees! It is considered the most ancient forest in the world, and it was under the dam, drowned.  I learned that and I just wanted to write a book about it –upstate New York, ghosts, water, marshland and floods…Then it turned out it was all one book, the ancient world saga, combined with present day NY politics.”

“I always write about women,” Headley says. “I also always write about monsters, the definition of what might or might not be monstrous. So that’s what this novel is about too.” The novel is finished, in draft at Ginestrelle, and it couldn’t have been written anywhere else. “The solitude combined with being able to tell fellow artists every morning where I was in the word count – and then get there! – was invaluable.”

 MariaDHEadley2 Magonia CoverTo learn more about Maria Dahvana Headley visit her websites:  www.mariadahvanaheadley.com

Moment of Realization

Although you cannot see it now

there will come that moment

when all the outside noise

DSC05516will decrease then dissolve

and all you will hear

is yourself

not the self

you have been telling yourself

you should be

or the self

you’ve been comparing to others

just you and you alone

DSC05501naked and vulnerable

naked and beautiful

and you will no longer

talk to impress

as silence is really more

profound

you won’t carry the weight

of the applause and recognition

that you thought you deserved

and should have received

you will be content

proud of all you have

done

honored that life

has gifted you

these experiences

and you will smile at

those still pandering for the light

still spouting what they know

but haven’t truly studied

and you will not contradict

or try to insert yourself

you will just know

who you are

and love yourself

for being you

Soil for Your Roots

DSC02587We are the very essence of nature

and just like a tree we have roots

that allow us to grow and flourish

in those things we select to pursue.

If, however, you are feeling stagnant — as if things are just

not working out for you, then it’s time to stop and check the soil

–your thoughts;

the people you surround yourself with.

your daily habits…

How healthy is that soil?

Certain trees, like mango for instance, need acidic soil with good drainage or it will rot.

What type of soil do you need to flourish and ripen as sweetly and abundantly as a good mango tree?

Chance are, if you are not blooming prolifically, yearly, you are in the wrong soil.

Now you know so don’t bemoan the fact.

You need to change your soil.  Make sure you have proper drainage and adequate sun — if you are a mango tree.

First, find out what kind of tree you are, and the soil and condition that are best suited for your growth.

It all begins with self-knowledge and awareness, then willingness to do what is necessary to optimize the conditions for your maturation.

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Tendai Humbasha Maduwa: Zimbabwean TV and Radio Presenter

DSC01312Ready and willing are the characteristics that most aptly describe this young Zimbabwean television and radio personality who is also an aspiring poet. With fine features, and  a genuine interest in the welfare of others, Tendai is passionate about his life and his work. As a Life-Coach, he wants to help others become their better selves.

He remembers himself writing and performing from the tender age of seven, but when he was eleven years old, he realized that this was his calling. This awareness came about in his primary school, when his Headmaster recognized his talent. During the School’s Prize Giving Ceremony, Tendai staged a theatrical show, which captured the audience. Ben Sibenke, a prominent Zimbabwean actor, author, teacher, was then the Headmaster, who observed Tendai’s talent, and decided to nurture and mentor him.

DSC01334“I have been performing since the age of eleven on the professional scene, and I continue today,” Tendai announces. He has performed in India, the Netherlands, Germany, South Africa, Kenya, Uganda, Swaziland, Malaysia, Thailand, Zambia, Tanzania, and of course, throughout his native home, Zimbabwe. He loves sharing his work and seeks to inspire people with his motivational messages.

Tendai, who was one of the featured poets of the 2014 Kistrech Poetry Festival, attended and participated in this year’s festivities, primarily to give support as a result of the positive experience from the previous year. From this event he says, “I learned that poetry is beyond words and performances. When we went to the villages, I learned much about poetry, and how much it should be appreciated in our daily routines.”

Despite, or perhaps because of this belief that poetry should be incorporated into our daily life, Tendai is very clear that poetry “is a profession just like other professions,” and therefore he states, “Don’t expect me or any other artist/poet to offer it to you for free.”

His ditty below conveys his feeling about poetry, so titled.

Poetry

Poetry is a song

Sung with riddles of language

A combination of proverbs and sweet rhythms

Intertwined with voices that echo on stage

Poetry is freedom of expression

The liberty to act and perform bilingual aspirations

Frequent movement on stage

The true voice that portrays humanity

Poetry is the air that I breathe

It is language that I speak

The emotions that I express

It is the thoughts that I expose

Poetry is self-perception

It is a wife I have married

The person I’m ready to share with others

It is an adopted child that needs to be looked after

Poetry is the force of manipulation

In my mind but a force that others listen to and buy

It is a short song,

A soft yet to be sung musical lyric

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